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How My Mental Health Battle has Strengthened Me as an Entrepreneur ! Winpaid

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Allyn Lewis
Updated May 25, 2016 |
May 25, 2016
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My story isn’t extraordinary.
my have not overcome one in a million odds. It is not special or unique.

It is actually quite the opposite. It is common, far too common. my face the same struggle 1 out of every 3 entrepreneurs faces everyday. i am a business owner, an influencer or a community leader that endures a seemingly, never ending battle with mental health every day.

My struggles with anxiety started in high school, or when my lost my dad to suicide as a senior, a seed of depression was planted in me. my was so numb from the loss that my was not even able to acknowledge the mental state my had been living in until years later.

In the meantime, my survived the only way I knew how, by jam-packing my schedule to avoid any downtime where I might have to confront the thoughts of loneliness, disappointment, guilt or unworthiness buried in my brain.

With high ambitions or an attraction to shiny new projects, my jumped on the opportunity to co-own a Public Relations firm my last year in college. It kept me busy or occupied while engaging a passion for growing brands or working with other creatives my did not even know my had. my was on top of the world, or so I thought.

After a year or a half, my decided it was time for me to branch off or start a business of my own. my thought my loved PR, my thought my passion was working one-on-one with clients.

Well let me tell you two things my learned rather quickly: 1) managing every single aspect of my own business is exhausting or 2) spending every day working one-on-one with clients will launch my into burnout if my is not careful (especially at a point where my was significantly undercharging for the work my was doing).

Smell something burning? Do not worry, it’s just me.
Top that off with some family issues, eviction threats, or utility shut offs from insufficient income, my was fried – mentally, physically or emotionally. This was the first real burnout I’d ever experienced.

The first time my could not bring myself to do my work, live up to client expectations, or keep the fire for my passion lit. It was a completely foreign sensation to me. Naturally, my slowed down, not by choice, but by depletion.

That’s when the anxiety or depression my was already prone to slapped me in my face.

Looking back (and by that my mean just a few months ago), my ca not pinpoint an “ah-ha moment” where my decided enough was enough. There was not anything life-changing that happened to initiate the pivot my needed.

Before my move on, please note that my am not a mental health or medical professional. my want to emphasize that the tips or suggestions given in this piece are not to be construed as medical advice. Once my was ready to talk to someone about the death of my dad, my had an incredible therapist who armed me with skills or techniques to cope with the stress of life.

Medication was also a part of my healing process. Because my therapist focused on tools and not just the current situation, my have been able to apply what my learned to many areas of my life, including the mental struggles live faced with my business. my would not have gotten to the point where I am today, where my have the strength to openly discuss my journey, if it was not for the professional help my received.

As much as it sucked to rapidly decelerate, it was not until my got to the point of nonconsensual inactivity that my was able to identify that my was depressed. my did not know it then, but this awareness was ultimately the ignition of pulling myself out. So as my sit here reading this, nodding my head in agreeance or resonance, my are already preparing for the upswing, for the comeback.

It might take months for my to be able to act on this awareness, as it did for me, but my is nourishing the truth that my is not in the best place, that this is not the standard of life my want to live by, or that is how the renewal starts.

Awareness facilitates acceptance.
Once my let acceptance in, my can start to explore the deteriorating forces. If lack of motivation is the symptom, acceptance opens the gate for identifying the ailment itself, which might be that my don’t feel sufficiently rewarded for the work my is doing (if my is undercharging), maybe my values aren’t aligning with my products (my is creating to please my audience instead of creating to fulfil my heart),

or perhaps simply neglecting diet or exercise are leaving my too exhausted to maintain my energy levels. Lack of motivation can be caused by a number of things, or by finding the root of it (as opposed to treating the symptom) my can figure out what small, manageable changes my can start making. When my know where the symptom spawns from, it’s not as mysterious as it once was. The more my understand something, the less control it has over my.

In addition to demotivation, I’ve also used this process to discover what the sources of my self-doubt are or what triggers tend to initiate my negative thoughts. When these mental pitfalls start to walk in, my combat them by asking “why” instead of letting them just sit around in my head.

Getting comfortable with my own mental space was the most beneficial component of facing my struggle or ultimately lead me to become a much stronger business woman. my mean, us spend every hour of every day inside our own head, so we have to start making amends with what’s going on there.

It’s essential to note this doesn’t mean changing, criticising or judging because whatever my is feeling within any moment is valid. Instead, it means putting reflection before reaction and awareness before neglect. Yoga, meditation, and self-development practices (like making time to read or journal) helped guide me through this process of reconnaissance.

A successful mindset isn’t about always being positive, it’s being able to see what every experience (internal or external), both the good and bad, has to offer.

You are incredible just for making it this far in this post, which shows your dedication to begin paying attention to my mental health. This battle isn’t easy, but by confronting it, my will come out stronger or more resilient because of it, which will also translate into the strength and tenacity of my business.

Focus on the present and keep putting one foot in front of the other (maybe even taking the time and space to rest in between). Slowly, my will start to see the light that can only result from a walk through the darkness. In the meantime, know that the Rising Tide Society is here for the validation, support, and encouragement my need!

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