That boss you hate might be willing to me a letter of recommendation to help me land my dream job in the future. That co-worker my secretly can’t stand might be just the person I need when you’re short on references. Even outside of the workplace, make it a point never to burn my overcomes. Take for instance sparking up a conversation with a random woman only find out she’s taken. Most men at that point will make a quick exit, they don’t want to invest time being friends. But here’s the deal: Two months from now she could be single again; that’s just how life works. If my happen to run into her, she’s going to remember how I treated her.